Ephemera

The story so far. 

Presence Out of Context/Underworld

Message, January 21, 2026. 7:21 PM.

Question: If you were dreaming right now, do you think you would sense the presence of the you who was dreaming? The presence of your sleeping self?

If you could, do you think you would recognize yourself as that presence?

I ask because this evening, I was out in town. The sun was below the horizon, but the sky was still a luminous (if ominous) grey. The lights of the town suddenly seemed to become more distinct, more vivid, with a strange depth. Despite the people and the traffic and the shops all around, I could feel the miles of snowy landscape around me, like a sort of echo.

It all felt slightly unreal. Memories flitted through my head not quite at random - us standing outside the art museum in the November wind, you and me on that drive from Texas to the Midwest. Other, things, too. It all felt similar somehow.

It wasn't just cold grue, but layers of it, like layers of time.

The radio played "wrapped around your finger" and it all felt so haunted that I began to question it, the meaning of it. It was as if I were hearing the song in its proper setting for the first time, the proper context, which allowed me to detect an essence I'd never noticed before. Something liminal. What was it I sensed?

My stream of consciousness was like so:

Underworld landscape. What would it feel like if you were dead and didn't know it? Would it feel like this? No, not quite. We are not entirely ghosts. We are something else. Has the rest the world disappeared, has the real world been obliterated and left this shadowy world behind? No, not quite that, either.

And what was the eerie, nameless presence in the atmosphere?

When running through all the iterations of what this was like, I realized that it was most like a dream, but as seen from the other side.

As if I were in the dream without knowing that I was being dreamed.

Except for the nameless, eerie presence of something unknown. 

***

It's been a few days since this happened, and I'm still thinking about it. Would you recognize your own presence out of context? The remnants of your own energy in a place where you used to live? 

Or (as my husband pointed out) the presence of your higher self, the eternal self that already knows all? 

I told him, if that were the case, I could think of two times such an awareness could become evident: if your higher self intervened to nudge you in a necessary direction, or that you, in your physical existence, had become so nebulous that you began to blend into that other world. 

I still wonder which one I experienced. 

But I suspect I know. 

Crystalline Winter

Cancer moon rising & the sky is Uranian blue. 

Solstice

It was a good holiday - calm, pleasant, the best I can remember in a long, long time. There is nothing especially profound or exciting to report except the above, which is enough, I think. 

Belt of Venus/Gemini Moon

The view from my back porch on a frosty evening. 

The earth's shadow seems so much closer here. 

The Cold Grue

I'd first read the term cold grue in the story Thrawn Janet by Robert Louis Stevenson. It was an arcane term to me, but I knew what it meant the moment I read it. I'd known that feeling since I was a child. It usually arrived in November, when it arrived at all, and lay mostly under the surface of winter, waiting to loom up at certain vulnerable moments - something that seemed almost sentient, a grey existential chill that was not merely cold, but deathly.

The appearance of the cold grue was something I'd come to dread. A rising uneasiness, the sense of something minatory, searching along the ground with the wind. I'd felt it a few notable times in my childhood - the visit to Liberty Hill, a playful seance gone awry that my cousins and I held on Thanksgiving, 1980, and the time surrounding the violent death of my aunt not too long afterward. Every holiday season since has been an exercise in keeping it at bay. 

Having spent my much of my life in Texas, it was something I'd associated with my home state, something that lived in the winter landscape there, so I did not expect to find it the first time I visited northwest Ohio in 2022. But on the second-to-last day of my trip, there it was, drifting toward me in waves as I stood on the steps at the art museum, as ominous and melancholy and as pure in form as I'd ever felt it. 

 

I'd never expected my path in life to lead me to the Midwest, and certainly not to such an unadulterated version of the feeling I'd been hiding from. Perhaps it was just my mood that day, I'd thought. Maybe it was just that I was standing in a sculpture garden. As I'd written in one of those links above, the surreal nature of modern art always did leave me a bit uneasy. Or perhaps it was just a temporary, momentary effect of the weather. 

When I did move here in 2023, it was summer, and there were only the aquarium blue sky and cornfields and the sound of daylight crickets in evidence. The cold grue was far from my mind. I would walk through the swamp preserve in the afternoon, or the marshy edgelands next to the mall, studying wildflowers and cottonwood trees. We visited Lake Erie. Then autumn arrived. 

The grue did not come right away. Gradually, though quicker than I would have imagined, the landscape changed its character. There is no real autumn where I'm from, so to watch it take on color and atmosphere was fascinating. Did you know that leaves will simply fall off of trees, without being blown down by wind after drying up from drought? I didn't, so just to watch them was like standing in fairyland. I was very lonely at the time, but it was beautiful even so. I spent so many evenings out there, learning about my newly adopted home, trying to take my mind off the rest of my life, which had quickly commenced unravelling. I learned about being cold, putting on more and more sweaters every time I went out. The skies became greyer and heavier, the chill wind fluttering the remaining cottonwood leaves. 

Near the center of the swamp preserve is a forest of skinny black ash trees. In summer, they were green, humming with insects, but no sooner had November come the skinny forest had transformed into a leafless, slightly hallucinatory labyrinth. The effect being a bit like a hall of mirrors, if only to reflect the inner self. I always felt uneasy when passing by, but as the fall closed in and the temperature fell, I found myself drawn to the place. There was something familiar down among the ashes, something ominous and melancholy and cold. I was so lonely, so heavy-hearted. The reason I'd moved here had fallen apart. I was unwelcome and unwanted, my future in serious doubt. The cold grue beckoned with frigid fingers down this forlorn path. It came over me with such intensity that day that I realized I was in the center of it, as if it had all come down to this singular point in time. I sat down and spoke to it. 

"What are you?' I said.

"The process of dying" it replied.

"Why are you here?"

"It's the earth's dying season"

"Why have I felt you in so many circumstances, then?"

"Because all deaths are the same to the dead." 

My phone rang. I gathered my things and stood up to walk home, wondering if was still existing in my world at all. 

I've moved on since that day, slowly piecing my life back together, trying to find any remnants of my lost inner light. The cold grue remains, in the autumn wind, in the snow, in the garden that has gone to seed. I'm not so troubled by it anymore, even if I am still haunted. I live in a place with all four seasons now, and have a lot still to learn about spring. 

The Wind Carries the Witches

Blowing the last few leaves from the skeletal trees. 

[Title courtesy of Christian Bauman]

All Hallows' Eve

My inexpertly carved cheerful ghost jack-o-lantern welcomes you to the all-night cosmic workshop and groovy divination chamber. 

The October Country

Words are difficult right now, but even in all the silence, it's like walking through a Ray Bradbury book.

Celestial Clockwork (or): Waiting Around for Grace, cont'd

Well, (she said, to the empty air) you can't have thought I'd forgotten, for the heart is persistent, down to its last agonized beat.

I don't know if this will make any sense. Maybe it will only make sense to the ones who need it.

I wrote the linked post quoted above back in September 2021, after a particularly haunting sort of day, the kind where absence feels as solid as presence should be, and loneliness is so sharp you can almost trace the outline of what is missing from your life. 

The title was from a song that was stuck in my head at the time, called Waiting Around for Grace, about which I'd privately mused that "Grace", aside from a desired state of being, might as well have been a dear friend you'd once arranged to meet at a certain time and place, who never arrives because she'd died long ago. (A feeling not unfamiliar to me - my best friend has been gone 20 years now.)

It was a significant day, spiritually at least, and aside from the post named above, I had continued to write and ponder on it for a long time. I'd always expected to finish this related piece called "Celestial Clockwork" when I figured out what it all meant, but 4 years later, I don't suppose I am any closer to knowing, so I guess I'm just going to post it today. 

This is what I wrote, back in 2021: 

Celestial Clockwork

 The restlessness started in mid-afternoon. It wasn't uncomfortable, exactly, but unfamiliar. Like craving food while having no appetite. 

The sense of needing something gnawed at me, though what it could be was not clear. I ran through all the possibilities in my head, all the things a person might conceivably need, but nothing came up a match. 

I went outside to where my husband sat under a tree, partly to consult him, but mostly because I couldn't stay still. "I need something, but don't know what, " I said. "Do you ever feel that way?" He looked up into the branches, thinking for a moment. 

"No, never."

Trying another tactic, I asked "well, what do you need, then?"

"Chinese food." he said.

Okay, we could do that, at least. Get the keys and go. You know how it is with these things. When you don't know what you're looking for, you might find it anywhere.

...

The restaurant seems out of place in the market plaza; the curling manes of the stone lions not in keeping with the stark façade. Like a few things I've come upon in my travels, these lions do not want to be photographed. It's simply not possible to get them both in the frame. I gave up trying long ago. What's the use of having the yin without the yang?

Inside is a darkened maze of wooden booths and bamboo screens. It's very quiet. The servers dart about soundlessly. In the center of the maze, the buffet tables are steaming. There is something slightly surreal in this, I think, the bright shimmer in the dim room. Visible heat. Strange how a sense of unreality can creep into most mundane of scenes. The transmutation of the unseen into the seen.

My husband has positioned himself at the end of one of the tables, and while I know he's just waiting for the General Tso's chicken, there's something about the sight that puts me in the mind of a chess piece awaiting the next move. In turn I position myself near the cauldrons of soup, another chess piece, if a less imposing one. In the stillness, I can feel a clock ticking both inside and outside. Above me, I notice, the ceiling is painted like the evening sky. 

Outside the restaurant it is silent. Amid the oblique geometry of the forecourt, the breeze moves in angular bursts. Pigeon feathers hover and swirl before drifting away. It's still summer, and hot, but the air has a trace of melancholy, the end of the season in a tourist town. We take our food and head home, and somehow things seem different, even though it's not clear what has changed. There is a vague sense of a far-off glimmer. Perhaps some unseen satellite ascending.

....

I don't know from astrology; I only know I like charts and glyphs. It's a comfort to me, mapping the arcane. Planets transit the houses, the moon changes its phase, a stranger on the street turns to catch your eye. Who can say what it means? I just like to think about it. 

Anyway, it helps with the restlessness, which has begun to metamorphize into an uncomfortable prickling, the feel of a cheap wool sweater on a hot day. The clock is ticking, I can feel it now that it has come into my awareness, though it must have always been there. What it is counting down to is a mystery. Perhaps some enigmatic matter of fate, which I can sense now like magnetic north or the pull of the ocean across the plain. 

This might be an unlikely claim from someone like me, but sometimes there is no point in asking why. Every so often, things just are, and you won't get anywhere pretending otherwise. I meditate for an hour, surfing relentless waves of inner itch, but all that happens is wanting to shed my body like a dry lizard skin. So, lacking any other solution, I mentally track the planets through their whorl of nebulous destiny. I don't believe for one moment that, say, Venus transiting the 7th house has an actual, physical pull on anything, but I know - the way one knows these things - that recurring patterns in the chaos are a signal. Cosmic tarot. Symbol plus placement plus synchronicity. 

It's Saturday, the 11th of September 2021, and aside from the internal ticking of the clock, there is no sound but the echo of blowing leaves.

At home, I skim the edges of the yard, looking for a place to land. It's easier to think outdoors, and there is much to ponder. The ticking of that clock, for one thing. Why do I suddenly feel as if I'm one of those number slide puzzles with the tiles slightly out of order? That I need to figure out what to shift before the clock winds down? It must have been just after 6:30 when I settled down in an out of the way corner behind the house. No one would be likely to find me there. My restless heart ached for peace, among other things. It seemed I was supposed to do something, and there is nothing worse for an aching heart than to feel there is some unknown move you should make to resolve the pain. 

I sat there in the dusty heat and tried to clear my mind. Somewhere up above I was dimly aware of planetary gears. I was conceived in September and born in June; there has always been something autumnal inside me, a wistfulness, an animal-like alertness to incipient change. I felt it keenly at the moment the clock went silent. A dust devil rose from the ground like a phantasm, present only briefly but portentous all the same. Somehow, I knew - at that moment, like a weight falling - that the first part of my life and its purpose were over. Whatever signal I had been sending like a determined firefly had gone out into the aether, and now there was nothing to do but to wait for a signal in return before moving forward to the next.

....

And that (having never become clear on her purpose) was all she wrote. 

Not that there was no more to the story, you understand - there was so much more to the story, so many layers, and loops, and walking one careful foot in front of the other down what seemed like a fateful and fated road that somehow instead came to a dead end. 

Yet, the feeling remains. The sense of absent presence, a third energy, a golden thread, an intangible field on which unseen action is meant to play out. My life has changed completely - sometimes serendipitously, sometimes forcibly pummeled into a new shape - from the way it was in 2021. But where this journey goes or why, I have even less of a clue now than I did then. 

As for Grace, I'm no longer waiting for her arrival. I accept that she isn't coming after all. Even the Chinese restaurant with the curly-maned lions is long gone, and the Texas hill country is far in the distance. I had a heart attack last year, and now my agonized old heart beats more erratically than ever.

Even so - for the moment, though - it still persists. 

The picture at the top of this post was taken as a somewhat mocking nod to that very same linked piece, outside a florist in Detroit one night in the autumn of 2023. Perhaps you can tell by my pained smile, that - despite the signage - grace was not exactly forthcoming for me at that time. 

One of These Days...

I'm going to steel myself, grit my teeth and drag my posts out of draft and actually finish them. 

I swear. 

♄ ♓︎ 29°59 ℞

 Where do I begin?  

Far Across the Reach of Space Time

 

The end of August

Oneirosphere

Pleased to announce that the Mothwing Collective are back at it, collaging the dreaming landscape, in 3 dimensions, this time. 

Or is it 4?

Or more? 

I will post more information as it appears.

In the meantime, keep dreaming. 

[Images, text and collage by Victoria Phantasmagoria and Mere Pseud]

The Mystic Eye

Still watches over me. Thank heavens.

maybe i am lost

 I feel so disconnected lately. It feels like part of me is giving up. But what about the rest of me?

The Dirt Road to Psychedelia

It's not that I'm homesick for the place I left; it's more that I'm homesick for the place it used to be. It's long gone now, except for the barest traces, and there is no pretending otherwise. 

The people who came before me might say the same about my era. There is a joke about Austin that it was always it's best just before you came. But maybe that goes for Texas as a whole.

All the same, that doesn't stop me from craving a Thundercloud sub every so often and missing the scent of mountain cedar and limestone dust. 

Anyway, here is a good documentary about psychedelic music, via the Internet Archive. 

The Dirt Road to Psychedelia

Why Do I Love Lo-Fi?

Because there is clarity in distortion. That's where the truth gets in. 

Can't Even Cross the Road in Ohio

Not without an egregiously fake UFO getting in the way. Typical. 

This Post Has No Title

So I'm posting it without one, because it's been keeping me stuck. I kept wanting to say something about "alignment" and "orientation" and the western sunlight through the door of the new house like the reverse of Stonehenge at the summer solstice, etc. etc. and how this house faces the same direction as the one I grew up in, and I can see Aldebaran from the back porch just like I used to in some far away place and time. Which is all very nice and true, but there's sense lately that it doesn't matter so much anymore.

Instead, there is a sort of inner silence. The habit of looking back is still there, but in a vague sense, like a muscle memory that finds itself (to its own surprise) somewhat unnecessary now. 

It stands to reason, I suppose. Why would you fight so hard for a new place in life, only to fill it with the old one? 

Instead, there is so much to process, so much that didn't even exist 2 years ago, so much to make sense of, as to how it all fits together to make up what is now. Most of the time I don't even know what to say, what to write, how to look at it without wincing, how to appreciate this small sense of peace as the dust begins to settle in the past. 

But I guess I will figure it out. 

The Mystical Properties of Snow

I am learning. Slowly, shiveringly, but surely. 
 

[Photo credit: Mere Pseud]

Sometimes I think I didn't pay enough attention to the yew tree at the corner of the house.

That. Just that, really. The yew tree standing in for all the things I should have noticed more, cared for, appreciated in the time I lived in this place. 

Got Nothin' To Say

It's the last day of 2024, and after a difficult year of many changes, I only have the strength to offer this. 

Goddess willing, though, with a little luck, maybe the new year will bring something to say. 

Salt-Free / The Fourth Dimension of Time

[Later, when I was in the hospital, I would have a recurring nightmare that blocks of sunlight were being hammered into my head. The blocks were meant to contain insight, but when I looked, the sunlight was empty. That's when I would wake up in a panic, remembering that I did not remember. 

It's funny, what the unconscious mind gets up to when we aren't there.]

1. 

On the second Sunday in May, my housemate and I were in the kitchen, leaning over a boiling pot of ramen. "This changes everything" he said, adding a handful of Costco dried mushrooms with a flourish. "Gives it an entirely different flavor." 

Suddenly my vision wavered. I thought at first it was steam from the pot. No, I thought. I remember.  This has happened before. Deja vu? No, a memory I had once, of something that had never happened. It was as vivid as something so nebulous could be. 

It had happened back in 2007, during that time of year when the weather was trying and failing to get properly warm. I was living in Victoria then, in the gold house, and on that day, I'd found myself pacing the floorboards, feeling haunted. A memory had come to me - it felt like a memory, anyway - very short, but distinct, of living somewhere else, another town, in another house, with someone I couldn't place. We were leaning over the stove in a steamy white kitchen. There was an impression of spindly space-age furnishings, table and chairs. We laughed, but there was a heaviness in the air, a sorrow, a sense of endings. The sort of regret that can follow you through time.   

I'd fretted restlessly for an entire afternoon, wondering where such a mental image had come from. I couldn't relate it to anything I'd done, or any place I'd been. Yet the melancholy tugged at my heart as if had all been real. For what? For whom? 

17 years later, I looked into the present and finally knew.

 

2.

The morning of the last Friday before I left Ohio, we were driving back from Perrysburg. I sat in the passenger seat, flipping through a copy of the Tao Te Ching. Anxiously, I closed my eyes and put my finger on a page at random. When I looked where my finger had landed, it was a phrase that said, "the fourth dimension of time." 

Just as we arrived home, where Tricky the cat sat at the kitchen threshold awaiting our return, we felt something pass through the room. It passed through us, too. Tricky raised her head, alert to the invisible motion. A sort of convulsive shudder, difficult to describe. I said, "Did you feel that?" My housemate replied, "a ripple in time."

It was a little while before I remembered the phrase I'd picked out of the Tao Te Ching.

3.

At the end of May, after I'd flown back to Texas with Tricky in tow, I stayed in a motel - the name escapes me now, but it hardly matters - while I waited for some plan to evolve. I knew this motel, because barely a year before, my friend and now-former housemate had come to stay. I was meant to be thinking of the future, but the sweltering heat made it nigh impossible. Since I'd arrived in Austin, everything had seemed blinding - too loud, too hot, too psychically polluted to bear contemplating at all. Already I was harboring the germ that would nearly kill me, but of course I didn't know it then. Instead, I sat on the balcony that by chance overlooked the path that we'd taken a year before, my friend and me, traipsing along, winding toward a future - now passed - that had seemed so bright. If I looked hard enough, I could swear I saw the air shimmer as our shades passed by. Look closely and you might see. 

...

In the hospital, these things came back slowly from the void where sepsis had left me. Time measured by the light out my window and salt-free meals brought three times a day. For a while it seemed I could let it drift away, all those memories, illness like a crossroads that time could not follow. I knew it would if I let it. I knew maybe I should. And yet I did not. And yet, and yet. 

...

We did make it back to Ohio, Tricky and me, worse for wear, eventually. But the ripple in time I'd somehow escaped took her away. She died soon after, near that same kitchen threshold, and I cried and cried and cried. She's buried at the corner of the house where the wind catches the leaves, but sometimes I hear her pattering around at night, somewhere, I imagine, in the fourth dimension of time. 

Speaking in Thorns

The hardest thing, maybe, is having lost your direction. All the things you wanted don't want you anymore.

The road dead-ends in a tangle of thorns.